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How to Conquer the Day

by Mike Vardy

How to Conquer the Day
How to Conquer the Day

Years ago, I scribbled this quote down on a sticky note and I’ve shared it multiple times:

“Cope with what you can’t control. Command what you can control. That’s how you conquer the day.”

This simple yet profound idea invites us to reflect on the nature of control, how it affects our well-being, and how we can better manage our emotions and decisions in a world filled with uncertainties. By understanding the distinction between what we can and cannot control, we can truly conquer each day with grace and purpose.

Coping with What You Can’t Control

Life is unpredictable, and we are often faced with situations that are beyond our control. From unexpected traffic to changes in weather, to the loss of a loved one, these circumstances can cause stress, anxiety, and feelings of helplessness. However, recognizing that certain aspects of life are simply out of our hands can be liberating.

To cope with what you can’t control, consider the following strategies:

  1. Acceptance: Embrace the reality of the situation and acknowledge that not everything is within your power to change. This acceptance can alleviate stress and help you move forward.
  2. Adaptability: Learn to be flexible and adapt to changing circumstances. Develop a growth mindset, which allows you to view challenges as opportunities to learn and grow.
  3. Emotional regulation: Practice mindfulness techniques, such as deep breathing and meditation, to manage your emotions effectively. By recognizing and acknowledging your feelings, you can make better decisions and maintain a balanced perspective. (Journaling can also help with this.)

Commanding What You Can Control

While certain aspects of life may be beyond our control, there are many areas where we have the power to shape our reality. By focusing on these areas, we can command our lives and create positive change. Some ways to command what you can control include:

  1. Goalsetting: Establish clear, specific, and realistic goals for yourself. Break them down into smaller, manageable steps and work towards them consistently.
  2. Time management: Prioritize your tasks and allocate your time wisely. Learn to say no to distractions and delegate responsibilities when possible.
  3. Personal growth: Invest in yourself through continuous learning, skill development, and self-care. Embrace new experiences and challenge yourself to step out of your comfort zone.
  4. Relationships: Nurture and maintain healthy relationships with others (as well as your relationship with time). Communicate effectively, set boundaries, and practice empathy and understanding.

Conclusion

By learning to cope with what you can’t control and commanding what you can, you’ll be better equipped to conquer each day. This balance allows you to focus on what truly matters and make the most of your time, energy, and attention. Remember: it’s not about controlling every aspect of your life but rather mastering the art of control to lead a happier, more fulfilling life. Embrace the wisdom of this quote, and you’ll find yourself conquering each day with a newfound sense of purpose and determination.

About Mike Vardy

Mike Vardy is a writer, speaker, productivity strategist, and founder of Productivityist. He is the author of The Front Nine: How to Start the Year You Want Anytime You Want and The Productivityist Playbook.

Categories: Intention and Attention Tagged: attention, conquer the day, control, productivity, time management

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